yep, thats pritty much what everyone has been saying, i said it too, arguing with him anymore is as you said, is going to fuel the fire.

@everyone

now im not trying to be grumpy mr gool, but Grendels asked to drop the subject, with all due respect to everyone, i think its time to do so, forget it, let it slide.... thats all im saying, let it slide.... not trying to be rude   just saing... lets drop the subject k

thanks guys  ;D