Aaron,
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I agree with Cap. There are some basic steps in Weathering. The order will vary with each modeler. Case in Point - I apply My pin wash first. Dry brush,Weather with Mud & Dirt, Dulcote, apply pigments to dust up. At the same time, it depends on what you model. I model Armor , German Armor more specifically,and it's almost like, each Genere has a certain style.
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